5. Do you binge drink on the weekends? If so, this does not necessarily mean you're an alcoholic. But it does mean you need to look into the situation more carefully. Some people naturally outgrow the binge drinking thing. But if you find the weekend binging slowly but surely starts bleeding into the weekdays, you could be at the beginning stages of alcoholism.
The other problem with binge drinking, whether you're an alcoholic or not, is that it's dangerous to your health.
6. We all drink to relieve stress occasionally (those who drink) - but if your primary daily reason for drinking is to relieve stress, this is a signal that you could be headed for an addiction problem.
Alcoholism Can Be Subtle
We don't have to drink like the brave souls who open their lives to us on A&E's cable TV show Intervention. Some of us go about our lives and no one - not even ourselves - realizes that our bodies are not processing the alcohol efficiently. And then one day, seemingly out of the blue, we're having our daily glasses of wine and wake up in the emergency room with tubes sticking out of us. Others go for years without any physical reaction to alcohol and then find that we've toasted our livers. We don't want to get to those points. Even if we think we're mild drinkers, we need to learn to abstain if we believe we are alcoholics.
Watch yourself during the day, and especially when you drink. Be an observer of yourself. Write down what you drink, what the accompanying thoughts and feelings are, and if there are any consequences. Many of us are into denial - that's part of the whole dance. By objectively noting everything on paper, we can begin to see things as they really are. If you find yourself hesitating to write down these details, that too is a red flag.
If you want to check into this further, here are some fabulous resources:
The Hazelden web site (http://www.hazelden.org/)
SMART Recovery (http://www.smartrecovery.org/)
A great read: Drinking: A Love Story by Caroline Knapp
Articles by Jean Kirkpatrick, the founder of Women for Sobriety (WFS), are available at http://www.womenforsobriety.org/. They also have an excellent newsletter called Sobering Thoughts.
The Mayo Clinic website (http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/alcoholism/DS00340)
Alcoholics Anonymous and AlAnon have some great literature
Your personal health care practitioner
Read Vitamin K Creams - Do They Work?
Read How to Make Money as a Wedding Singer
|